John, I won't be too much help, but in part I believe that there are two layers of grid, inner woven so to speak, hence two relays and two leads that go to the Drivers side battery post. Just finished fixing my grid problem yesterday. (corrosion in terminals at battery, not energizing relays, hence no grid heat, no start at 12 degrees)
That is as far as i can go without guessing. That guess would be (and feel ffree to skip this)
Intake air temp sensor reads below 56degress, Engine controle Mod signals relays to energize grids via timer. After engine start, timer circuit continues off and on until a minimum necessary engine temp, or possibly spee, as i think my headlights quit dimming around 20 mph.
This probably doesn't really help you though.