I just ordered an 2011 4500, when test driving I noticed it is kind of a dog, but has to be more reliable than my F450. I don't think it will pull with my 98. 5 which sounds similar to your truck. I emailed Smarty (Mad electronics) they said they are working on a unit for the cab and chassis but were not ready to state a release date. So that will be what I hold out for. There has been reports of fresh air kits setting codes and some not, that might help. I have had good luck with methanol on my older trucks, not sure how that works with the dpf but should reduce regen as methanol absorbs the fuel and increases the use of the mixture so theoretically less smoke, less regen?
Sorry not much help, have noticed that this forum is still a bit of a start up,
perry