So I finally did the oil pan today. Here's what I learned.
The new pans you will buy (no matter brand or source) have been updated with a steel "rail" that runs the perimeter of the entire oil pan lip to help spread clamping loads. This "rail" is thick, a solid 1/8th inch is my guess, so new bolts are recommended to account for this additional pan thickness. The new bolts at the dealer are $4 a pop and you need 32 of them.....That's ridiculous. So I ordered up a bag of 50 from McMaster-Carr, (M8 1.25 25mm UHL with serrated flange) for $10.39. The have a larger head (13mm versus 10mm OEM bolt) but still clear the sides of the pan and fit just fine. I used an aftermarket pan (forget which one, but it fit great and was identical to the OEM that came off), cummins gasket.
As for tips on doing the job, I simply did as others suggested:
1) Remove the intake tube entirely, air box can stay.
2) Loosen the rubber boot leading from turbo to the intercooler (on passenger side closest to turbo) and on the driver side (closest to the aluminum intake horn) Oddly enough I found these to be 7/16ths nuts.
3) Loosen the lower band clamp (7/16ths nut) on the exhaust so the down pipe is free. I also removed the bracket for the hanger (2 15mm bolts that thread into the backside of the adapter plate/rear block/transmission.
4) Remove the 10mm bolt for dipstick tube (kinda option, but mine started to hang up on the wiring along the cowl).
5) Remove the engine cover (black plastic thing on top of valve cover, 10mm) optional, but I figured easy enough and maybe I'd need the room.
6) Loosen the two longitudinal motor mount bolts (18mm nut), access from the front is good and mine broke loose without any real struggle.
7) Remove the two transmission mount bolts at the cross member (15mm) so the transmission can pivot. Saw this on a youtube video and it made sense to me.
8) Drive these bolts backwards toward rear of truck so that the bolt head will clear the lip of the motor stand. This was the biggest hang up I encountered as I could not get the passenger bolt to budge, without lots of beating on the bolt. No real good way to get a good swing on it. I ven used an air chisel with blunt face to try and drive it back, but in the end brute force and perseverance won the day.
9) Cherry Picker with chain and hook on the front factory lift point and start lifting, slow and check and look and lift some more. At first the whole truck came up, but on the second attempt, the engine "broke" free and up she went. She did rotate towards the driver side, which due to the lift point being off center, was expected. I didn't find a good lift point that was easy to access on the driver side.
10) Place jack and 12-15" 2x4 at front of transmission pan where pan meets the transmission case and lift just that extra little bit (maybe an 1" tops). Once pan is out, this can be removed for better access while cleaning
11) Loosen and remove all 32 oil pan bolts (10mm) and the old plan slid right out.
12) Clean, prep, and reverse to install.