Adjust your wastegate so it will blow by some for now. In other words adjust the j-hook, and let it open. Your going to nuke that charger if you keep seeing that kind of boost, not to mention what the the drive pressure is doing to your headgasket.
Try an HTB2 (62/12) from HTTurbo. It will cool that thing down, make more power, and relieve the drive pressure. Hope this helps.