Lots of good points and opinions above - and as long as posters are able to properly debate an ISSUE - and keep personalities and name-calling out of it, opinions CAN be useful in forming choices...
HERE, the issue is the acceptability of overnighting in various "free" parking spaces - some offered by merchants - others merely "squatted" upon by those RVers looking for a roost for the night - I expressed MY personal opinion - complete with supporting reasons - WITHOUT the need to name names or personally abuse any individual - I oppose the PRACTICE as used by some - but DON'T attack ANY individual, since I have no way to know WHO specifically does those things unless they vollunteer the info...
Counter to what I was accused of above *I* can't in ANY way "force" my opinions made here on ANYONE - and if anyone has a suggestion as to how I can, please point it out, cuz I have LOTS of political opinions I'd like to also "enforce" upon society...
Forums like these are FOR exchanging opinions, nor are all our opinions likely to mesh with mellow harmony - we WILL disagree on some issues, but stick TO the issue, and LEAVE THE PERSONALITIES out of it!
HEY - some wanna plan their entire "RV vacation" around WalMart parking lots and such? Have at it - it's not the style for me and my family, and I've stated why - but there's dern little *I* can do to control or restrict others from doing it, other than expressing my own viewpoint on the subject - and what's wrong with that? Why should any feel threatened or their tranquility disturbed because of MY opinion? I'm against the PRACTICE, not any specific individual!
BUT, for the record, the "acceptability" of sniffing out "free" parking simply because of poor or unusual travel scheduling doesn't really change the ethics involved. Some seem to feel that since their travel is either too hurried, OR too casual, conventional planning is either not required or impossible, and practices they supposedly would NOT "normally" employ, are now just fine and dandy...
As I said, on our cross-country trip whan I retired in '96, we stopped at MANY extremely attractive spots along the way - we were total strangers to the various areas we traveled thru, but we DID have and USE a good up to date campground directory, and it doesn't take much time or real genius to select decent overnight options as the end of our day is near - and some of the state CGs in the southern states - leaves turning with the fall colors, beside picturesque lakes - nearly deserted in the Fall - are memories that will LONG last past the memory of the few minutes off the main road it took to get there, and the few paltry dollars the stays cost us - especially as compared to the Walmart asphalt and neon lights...
In our conversation of that perticular trip, we have MANY TIMES described to friends and shown pictures of the beauty we viewed in those places and states - but not ONCE have we EVER glowingly described some Walmart or Flying J RV space we saw along the way...
Honest, *I'm* not a bad guy for feeling the way I do on the subject - or for expressing my opinion here... NOR are any of YOU bad guys for having and expressing your countering opinion - can't we accept and leave it at that - without personal attack?
