If your issue is total boost vs. headgasket strength, I would go to a larger exhaust housing, probably the one on the secondary turbo was the wastegated unit so change that one. Wastegates are not the best idea as I outlined in Issue 65, p. 90:
"Some of us think about the exhaust or turbine housing of the turbocharger, and wonder why it is so small. Here our diesels may make 400, 500, or more horsepower, and the cross sectional area of the turbine housing is only 12 or 16 square centimeters, or well under that of a single 2” diameter exhaust pipe. How can we make such power with 1-3/4” single exhaust? When we compare a small exhaust housing with a big wastegate to a non-wastegated larger exhaust housing, we find that the spool-up and power when first getting on the accelerator pedal is a lot better with the small housing, but it seems to “choke” the engine (from reaching full power potential) at high boost and high power, compared to the bigger exhaust housing.
The secret, and the answer to all the above questions on backpressure, is in that turbocharger system and what it does on the intake side of the engine. The turbo has given the engine a lot more air, so it thinks it is twice or three times as big as it was with no boost. With a big single turbo we can try a fairly big exhaust wheel and housing to keep boost pressure above or close to the amount of backpressure, but responsiveness at lower power and rpm have suffered. We don't like the poor drivability nor the smoke while the big turbo tries to spool up on a small engine. So, we go to a smaller exhaust housing with a wastegate. The smaller housing give us the spool up we want, and boost pressure vs. backpressure is still good, until the wastegate opens. Why does giving a bigger exhaust flow path to the engine hurt back pressure? As we open the wastegate, some of the exhaust energy bypasses the turbine wheel so boost drops, and the boost pressure just got too low compared to the backpressure. If we increase fueling and power, we are no better off, because we are making more exhaust backpressure from burning more fuel into exhaust gas, and from heating the gas more. We aren't increasing boost because the wastegate is open. That is why a small housing with a nice wastegate is still not ideal.
The Cummins factory has used wastegated turbochargers on our Dodge applications since 1994, in part because they are balancing power and emissions. To get good power and sell engines, they need responsiveness. To keep smoke down, meaning to get that good response without the belch of smoke, they need a small exhaust housing. Because of engine design limits such as maximum turbo wheel speed and head gasket sealing, they use the wastegate to limit boost pressure. They also try to size the turbo so that the wastegate is open only a tiny fraction of the time the engine is running, meaning only when it is at full power (in stock form). Then we come along and increase that maximum power level greatly, and the wastegate is open much more of the time if we are using the increased power. "
While a blow-off valve may be a band-aid type of fix, I would not prefer it either because once again you are upsetting the backpressure vs. boost balance.