E7mack96 said:My experience:
I was out on the porch one day minding my own business. The neighbor across the street came out of his house and proceeded to cross the street. He made it across by darting between cars. He did not see his little 2 year old come out the door behind him. The 2 year old didn't make it across. (I yelled to him about the 2 year old. Our road is a 3 lane , one reversable. He couldn't hear me over the traffic) The 2 year old just walked across and the car saw him come into the lane, and locked 'em up. I watched in absolute horror as the little boy was knocked 20-25 yards down the road. The car was going just 40 mph. It was just awful to see it happen and not be able to help.
I speed on interstates, but not in anyones residential area. I'll throw something at the ones who do in my neighborhood.
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i'm very terribly that this happened and u had to witness that it's an awful thing but college drive is not a resedential area it's called that when u get by old town the limit drops to 20 mph now it's not a housing area it's an area filled with bars and stores which are closed by this time. It's a terrible thing that people experience some of the tragedies which u site an excellent example of, and i'm in no way saying or sticking up for the driver in this instance but honestly don't u think that a 2 year old kid who hasn't probably been walking much more then a year should be anywhere even near a busy or even a not so busy road without having a parent hold their hand. Not even that i carry a 2 year old across the street. If your neighborhood is a 20 zone and the person is doing 40 yes they are speeding no doubt but should rational adults sort of figure out basic probabilities and then plan in accordance on the best way to avoid the above mentioned scenario. I know it's harsh but i wonder if your neighbor doesn't hate himself a bit also i'm sure he hates the driver that's given watching such a horrible thing happen, but do you think deep down he's mad at himself for not making sure the child was inside or that the mother was there or that he picked him up to carry him across. I know i would be asking myself these questions. You can't always depend on everyone in society to do what's right or even act normal sometimes. People are crazy i mean really crazy, so a parent has a responsability to protect a child and keep them safe and no doubt kids are a menace and get into everything and do everything they shouldn't and that's why we are there as parents to overlook them and make sure they don't end up in a scenario such as the horrible case u mentioned. That's awful and i would hate to be a witness or even be around anything so horrible as that scene.