We seem to continually see this area of denial of fact resurfacing...
Some owners simply will NOT accept or admit that what the manufacturer has established from regulations and OVERALL vehicle construction and testing - then clearly posted and advertised as GVWR is in fact, what it IS!
Sure, you CAN haul or tow over that rating - and probably get by with it (for a while!) - but doing so stresses parts beyond established ratings and warranty coverage, creating accellerated wear and in some cases, endangering the vehicle operator and those around him.
SO, tow consistently heavy, or over the GVWR of the TOTAL vehicle if yer absolutely determined to do so, but even if you can manage to motivate a few others of the same mindset to step up an agree with you, GVWR is GVWR, and rationalization or "fuzzy math" WON'T change it!
Here's a picture of my Ford driving Rving bud - he figured HE could "fudge" on GVWR too - but with less than 75K on his '99 Super Duty Power Stroke, and $3200 for a new transmission, another $1500 for a differential rebuild and new U-joints, he now has faced the fact his truck simply is NOT stout enough for the 33' Alpenlite he tows, and is looking for something bigger...
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The law of physics WILL get you, sooner or later! - no matter HOW hard you try to rationalize to the contrary!
