Problem With Girlfriend....What do i do..?

[XcumminsX]

Hey guys. Yes everything is OK with her now. I talked to her about it and she now realized that i am going to be working for our future and that things will be much better because of what i do. We are better than ever. We became stronger after this.



And for the guy who says why be home at 12:30? Work in a precision machine shop for 1 day and you will see why... For example (just to let you know how precise i must be) rip a hair out of your head. A normal hair on your head is about . 003 thousandths of an inch. Now take that piece of hair like this | and cut it 15 to 30 even sometimes up to 60 times. . Thats the normal tolerances i have to deal with every day and if i screw up about 10 operations to get to that point were for nothing and the part is garbage ... I love my job and i am no slacker either, Plus i work for my family if my dad, uncles or grandpa see that I'm dead tired and i am not in the right state of mind to work... ill be sent home. Maybe you'll understand where I'm coming from now.



Nick

 

[MCummings]

Nick,, What are you making at 3 thousandths?



My last injectors were cut at . 0115"



My new ones aren't going to be so big...



Merrick

 

[dpuckett]

Originally posted by Hale on wheels

I cannot devulge my infinite wisdom on the subject until I have seen the naughty pic of 3atatime and the pic of Nick's gf.

Yeah, where is 3atatime, anyway? She mentioned wanting to rodeo more this year, but I didnt expect her to abandon her guys to do it.

Is that a regular or naughty pic of Nick's girlfriend you want to see? She may not appreciate him sharing naughty pics, esp on the web.

 

[Dieselnut59]

What a thread!!

Well, I was gona stay out of this one, but I gotta give this young feller my $. 02.

Make your first priority paying for the truck and getting it upgraded to your likings... It will outlast several women anyway. It is ok to think with your P3N15, but use your big head too and don't get the girl pregnant... and DON'T assume just because she is on birth control that she is taking it regularly. I have seen way too many girls through the years that will "say" they are on birth control (and maybe do have the product), but don't take it properly, or stop taking it when a problem arises between you and her in order to "bind" you into a relationship with her by getting pregnant. It sounds rediculious, but it happens quite often and unfortunately, the choice from then on is up to the girl. She can SCREW you with child support and away goes your BOMB money and possibly your truck.

I have always worked in a family business, so I definately know the demands that can put on your life. The family has it MUCH harder than any other employees, but they probably also have good sense when it comes to money management.

Here is my advice (and what I also live by):

DO NOT put ANYTHING in joint names with a girl/woman until you get married, THEN make her sign a "pre nump" agreement (? spelling on that). Otherwise she can get some high flutin lawyer and possibly RUIN your life and possibly your business if you take it over in the future. Also, again, like has been mentioned several times before on here: DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT

You are young. I wish I had of started playin' around with the women folk when I was your age. I party a lot with one of my younger best buddies and we have a blast. He is 21 and I am 31. We both love PU55Y, but stay away from the "commitment" mess, hence the reason we have all the big boy toys in our OWN name! He has a 1989 and 2002 Dodge Diesel, his own house and business, along with other toys (ATV, etc... )

I have my own house, large tract of land, 1996, 2003 Dodge/Cummins, plenty of other "toys" and my INDEPENDENCE! I don't have to answer to anyone, I can see or $crew whatever woman I choose and I would not have it any other way. After about 8 years on in the "dating scene", I have never been without bedroom company for more than a few weeks at a time.

More advice: Don't get too much into a relationship till after you finish school. I never really dated till I was 23 and was a virgin till I was 24. With a family business and the pressures of school, who needs the additional pressures of a relationship?

Have fun and enjoy yourself while you are young. I wish I had done more of it, but I sure am enjoying life now as a "recycled teenager"! Use that P3N15, but just know a little history about the hole where you stick it!

 

[XcumminsX]

LOL!!!!!! Thanks Dieselnut59

 

[Rebel_Horseman]

To answer your questions, personal opinion is that yes, 3 is hot. And yes, I've seen more of her than just the pics on here so I can make a very informed analysis. As far as the naughty pics goes, ya'll can thank me for taking them later. Fest, she's not mean to me. Well, at least not all the time. :-laf. As far as I know, she's hasn't been aorund caes she's been sick, plus school has just recently kicked off again, and of course her 2 jobs doesn't leave a lot of free time either.



Reb [><]

 

[bighammer]

Originally posted by Rob Thomas

LMAO!!!



(and doesn't have the slightest clue about how this computer works, wheew).







Rob

Gee Rob, maybe that's something you two share. It helps a relationship to have something in common. :-laf

 

[XcumminsX]

look at my profile and you can see some examples of parts we make here. Maybe some of you guys with performance shops would be interested in having us make parts for you.



www.sonicmfgcorp.com



Thats the older site im working on updating it now.

 

[J Shocik]

Nick, It sounds like you have your priorities in order- go to school, get a good job, have a nice truck. You have responsibilities, to your employer who expects you at work early and sober, and to yourself for the plans you have for your future. Stick by your guns on this one- trust me. If she REALLY loves you, the curfew won't matter. I dated a girl like this once- she LOVED to party hard! She almost ruined my life. I now have a nice wife, a nice house, a nice m/c, and a great truck!! The former girl-friend has done a few rehab stincts and is a miserable bi**h. Thing will work out for the better if you stick to your guns on this one-with or withiut her. John

 

[HoleshotHolset]

I *still* think she looks different in person... .



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Matt

 

[XcumminsX]

LOL. Matt. What did you think? I called her up 20 minutes before i was leaving and said get clothes on your coming with me i dont want to be lost for hours and hours after the lunch



Nick

 

[Sled Puller]

Re: What a thread!!

Originally posted by Dieselnut59

Here is my advice (and what I also live by):

DO NOT put ANYTHING in joint names with a girl/woman until you get married, THEN make her sign a "pre nump" agreement (? spelling on that).

Did you mean "pre hump"?

 

[JSmith]

I was in love with my highschool sweetheart. On the bus going to and from school we would look at houses and I would tell her some day I will buy a house like that for us to live in. She wanted it too at the time. That was 27yrs ago. She is married to someone else and so am I. After 3 years of dating she made my life a living he!!. We parted on good terms. I am soooo glad I did not marry that woman. Thank GOD.

 

[PLaFrombois]

Nick



Glad you could make it to Champps on Sunday and bring the girl friend along for us to meet in person. I want to tell everyone that the girl in the picture is real, and Nick didn't make her up to start this thread.



There are however some things you need to discuss with her before she tags along next time. It's my opinion, she talked way to much during lunch. I don't believe anyone else could get a word in while she was at the table. Second, she needs to stand outside with everyone and talk trucks, and not sit inside a warm vehicle and laugh at us freezing our butts off. It shouldn't matter that it was only 12 degrees with a wind chill of -10. I think it took the whole trip back to Madison before I could feel my toes. I still can't believe we stood outside for almost 1 1/2 hours.



Paul

 

[snowracer69]

Nick, I don't wanna be rude or anything, but um.....



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I don't think I'd be wanting to lose that either!



Ok, guess it's time for me to #ad




Josh

 

[Got Smoke?]

Yeah what he said! :-laf

 

[XcumminsX]

Yeah i yelled at her for sitting in the truck like that. I said next time it will be nicer out so you wont have any excuse to be shy. She was pretty nervous. I cant blame her i was pretty nervous and i talk to everyone online. Next time she'll be better. I didnt even notice she talked much. Sorry about that



Nick

 

[Elite1]

X, You are right, she is a beauty! You are one lucky guy. But I have to admit, I'm pretty lucky myself, I have one beautiful wife... . just not as young as yours!

 

[HoleshotHolset]

Nick: She's a sweet gal... that picture doesn't do her any justice... she looks better in person.



Matt

 

[XcumminsX]

Oh LOL i thought you meant she looked worse in person. . Well thanks!



Nick