Don't know about the new trucks, but my '97 did not have the trailer tow package and the wiring was not the same.
There was no harness connection for the brake controller, the wires to the tail lights were smaller gauge, and there was no relay for the running lights.
I hooked the brake and running lights to the existing wiring and the trailer lights were somewhat dim. I would recommend an aftermarket relay package to run the trailer lights. I don't know of any brands but I have heard they exist.
I ran some pretty heavy wire for the brake circuit and charge circuit. #10 or #8 if I remember correct. You can't be too big. Be sure your ground wire is also beafy. It should be able to take all the current in the other wires added together.
Good Luck with the wiring.