For your first question, go here:
http://www.ranchhand.com/dealers.asp
I never wanted or needed one of those big, heavy bumpers on my truck... Then I bumped (MAYBE 5 mph) an old F-150. I suffered severe sticker shock at what it was going to cost to replace the factory tinfoil, even after the insurance paid off.
I went to the Ranch Hand outlet in Irving, bought a Legend bumper and never looked back. This is one tough bumper. One look at it and you can tell it's a quality piece. The welds are solid with no spatter onto adjacent metal. The powder coat is top notch too.
It does stick out about a foot farther than the stock bumper. I call it my "front porch". My 6-year old grandson loves to "help" me work under the hood. He can literally walk around between the grill guard and the A/C condenser. Heck, I stand in there when I change the fuel filter! :-laf It has no trouble holding my 250 lbs.
It gets lots of compliments, too. The last one was at the local Love's truck stop while I was filling up. A guy roughly my age (old) walks over from two rows over with a big grin on his face and says. "That's one serious bumper!". Also as usual, he wanted to know where I got it.
Now I want the matching back bumper. Of course, then I'll have to get my aluminum running boards Line-x'd so it will all match.
Hope this is what you were looking for.
Bob