I have a temp gauge on my rear axle and trans. When I am pulling my TT in the mountains on a hot summer day (100 deg. +) it is not unusual to see axle temps get into the 200-210 deg range. While I don't believe that this is outside of the LE-607's ability to protect the differential, I will be changing to Delo ESI 85-140 on the next axle change.
I believe that the higher viscosity will protect better at the higher temps. And, it is a general rule of thumb that one should always go with the next higher viscosity when your operating temps and adjusted viscosities fall between the lines. Also this lube uses borate technology instead of sulfate technology for the EP package and it is proving to be superior. I have seen transmissions and axles out of Class 8 vehicles that looked brand new after 750,000 miles.
As long as the lubricant you are using meets the specification for the axle or transmission you should not overly concern yourself. Now, with that said, it does not mean that lube X is not better than Lube Y. It has much to do about operational conditions (Ambient Temp, Load, etc. ) and how well mached the lubricant is for those conditions.
This is not rocket science either. Just consider what you do with your truck and where you do it. This should lead you right to the proper lubricant choice. As far a s brands, do any of us think that a person that works for Company X is ever going to tell you that their product is not as good as Company Y's? I would hope not! Unless they are short timing.