Reb,
I don't know what sealant came from the factory, other than to say it's some kind of silicone. You can tell the first time you change a new truck's fluid.
The factory recommends using silicone sealant as a gasket. I don't think anyone makes a real gasket for the differential cover, except for the o-ring that comes with a Mag-Hytec.
I have used high-temp silicone as well as the regular stuff. They both seem to work fine.
Once I tried Hylomar (brand name) sealant because it claimed to be made for differential covers, and also claimed to be reusable. It leaked. I changed the oil prematurely that time, and used silicone sealant.
Just follow the instructions that come with the silicone. Don't use too much or it will ooze into the axle housing. I doubt that it would hurt anything, but it certainly doesn't help either. A bead that's about 1/8" diameter has worked for me.
Valco makes a tube squeezer gizmo that will prevent cramps from trying to get that viscous mess through that 1/8" hole. Call them and order a "Tube Grip. " Their data:
Valco Cincinnati
411 Circle Freeway Drive
Cincinnati, OH 45246
Phone: 513-874-6550
(Orders): 800-788-3865
You should also get a "Jay's EZ Funnel" from Geno's Garage. It will make filling the differential waaaaay easier than pouring from the bottle.
Good luck.
Loren