Fill the axle correctly and I would bet your seal problems go away.
Fill it right up to the fill plug, put the plug in and jack one side up at least 6" off the ground, wait about 2 minutes, let it down and wait about 2 minutes. Pull the plug and refill it to the fill hole. Jack up the other side at least 6", wait about 2 minutes, and let it down. Wait about 2 minutes and fill it back up the bottom of the fill hole.
The seals can run semi dry if you use the procsedure in the FSM to fill the diff. You need to fill the axle tubes, then let the level equalize so they don't run dry. 3 axle seals went before I started doing it this way, and nearly 100K miles later I have not had another problem.