Good post Don. IMHO, the guy that opened the door got what he was looking for. It's one thing to approach another driver and discuss a road rage incident, it's entirely another subject when the aggressor opens your door in a fit of rage. If Don's friend had been meek when his door was opended, he probably would have been the recipent of the knuckle sandwich. Flame away if you wish, but if I was in the same situation I would have done the same thing. I know it's real easy to talk tough on the web, but I can honestly tell you, from 15+ years as a street cop, you know when you are in a situation that is going to turn violent and you are nothing but a fool to wait for your foe to throw the first blow. You can only talk so much, this guy obviuosly wasn't interested in talking, based on his actions.
As for cops getting preferential treatment, give me a break. We are Monday morning quarterbacked by every attorney that reads our reports, including those in the Prosecutors office. We have a few seconds to make life and death decisions most everyday. I've been sued countless times. Most every dirtbag that resists arrest charges the officer with simple or aggravted assault. We have a saying that states if you are green sheet free ( a term used to describe the color of the defendants copy of a complaint) you are not doing your job. If you get a DWI confiction against you, will you lose your job ? I will. If your wife files for a restraining order against you and it becomes finalized in Superior court, will you lose your job ? I will. If you get convicted of a disorderly persons offense, will you lose your job ? I will. Nuff said.
Scott W.