Success, but not without it's cost!
First, let me thank all of you who provided input into this situation. The TDR (i. e. you members) are a priceless resource.
Second, let me sheepishly declare WE SCREWED UP! Yes, a programmer and an aviation mechanic are not infallible. We both should have known better. As Joe D. said above, much to our astonishment, when we popped the gear off after getting the pump up to our desired setting (about 5. 58mm of lift on the dial), the needle wasn't moving back just . 1 or . 2 mm, but a full 2 millimeters plus . 1 or . 2. 2 mm is a full revolution of the dial, but it happens so fast our eyes didn't see it. Only today, after 6 or 7 attempts since last Wednesday to set the timing, did we notice this. One of us just happened to look after it jumped at the smaller, inner dial that marks off full millimeters and noticed the big change. Da#@ that little dial

It took a couple more attempts and a conversation with Joe by phone before it began to dawn us that this extreme change was occurring every time we popped the gear.
It even happened when we torqued the nut to only 2 ft-lbs, which was adequate to move the pump to get our desired setting, then popped the gear. Apparently, the ramp of the cam is so steep at that setting that simply breaking the gear loose from the shaft allowed the pump to rotate backward that much in the blink of an eye (4 eyes, actually).
What we finally realized was that in each case the pump timing was retarding itself roughly 2. 1 mm from our desired setting, only we thought it was simply . 1 mm +/-. We would then compensate for the . 1 or . 2 mm change, reset TDC, and torque it down. We found that when it "slipped", it was slipping by about the same amount each time, down to about 3. 5 or 3. 6 degrees. Note that this is roughly our desired setting minus the actual jump of the pump. So when the truck didn't run right off idle, it wasn't due to slipping, but just retarded timing (and 2 *mumble* "mechanics").
Anyhow, since we couldn't get the pump to stay put at 5. 58mm, we finally set it to 3. 5mm at TDC, a setting that would hold when we popped the gear. We then rotated forward to our desired lift of ~5. 58mm and measured the distance from TDC the damper moved to get there. Back at TDC and 3. 5mm of lift, we popped the gear, rotated backward (retarded) by the distance measured on the damper, snugged the gear on, then rotated up to TDC. After about 3 attempts, we had it. Torqued it down, buttoned it up and started it (after a brief prayer). It ran just like it was meant to
Our costs: 2 evenings and 2 full days in the garage, 1 gasket and seal kit, a trip into the gear case (KDP was jigged last summer and in its place as expected), and a lot of frustration.
Our gain: well, beside my timing up where I want it, a whole lot of experience on timing these things and what it takes to pull the case cover. We also found our process of cleaning the gear and shaft to be quite adequate - 3 or 4 rounds of brake cleaner and compressed air. I will be quite prepared for the next one.
BTW: 150 ft-lbs of torque is all that is needed to hold this gear on (in most cases anyway), just as Joe said. Listen to the voice of experience (his).
TurboSandman,
I don't have a lubricator on my compressor, just plain ol' air. That seems to work just great. Thanks for thinking of it though.
OK, what's next... maybe a ported head! Hmmmm... .
Calling it a night,
-Jay