Todd,
Problem is, I have only 1 wire that has white in it: WT/DG, so your logic won't work for me.
Jeff's revelation of the proper connector diagram on page 8W-80-6 made me go back to the connector and examine it and determine just exactly what I've got in each cavity. So here it is:
Cavity 1 - DB/DG - APPS #2 Signal
Cavity 2 - BR/VT - 5v Supply
Cavity 3 - BR - 5v Supply
Cavity 4 - BR/DG - APPS #2 Return
Cavity 5 - WT/DG - APPS #1 Signal
Cavity 6 - PK/DB - APPS #1 Return
These are what is actually installed on my truck. The only ones that don't "jive" with the manual are cavity 2 and 3. To be honest, I can't hardly tell if those are solid brown, solid violet, or brown with violet stripes; but it doesn't matter because they're just 5v supplies and I don't need them.
So, I am checking with DSG to ensure that the connections for their box are:
WHITE WIRE - APPS #1 SIGNAL
BLACK WIRE - APPS #2 SIGNAL
Which means I tap WT/DG (cavity 5) and DB/DG (cavity 1).