Thomas,
OK, I see your point. I have switched power so hooking up the new harness to the old was not a problem for me. However, I did a lot of reading here before I did this mod and was aware of the switched ground/switched power issue. Having said that, and once you're aware of this, I still contend it's really not much of an issue. Your stock harness plug that plugs into the original bulbs will have 3 leads whether you have a switched ground or switched power system, right? (Please correct me because I haven't done this mod on a switched ground system. ) In mine, the ground is common and the 2 power leads are switched (low and hi beams). I would think on a switched ground system one would be hot and the other 2 would be separate, switched grounds. Once you are aware of which is which, it's still simply a matter of running 2 wires - one from the hot and one from the ground - to the coil of the relay. It just depends on if your grounds are separate due to being switched, or your power leads are separate due to being switched. You just wouldn't want to run a common ground from the relay coil to your truck's body/frame on a switched ground system! That would be a problem.
Either way, the load side (bulb power) of the new harness can be switched power or switched ground (the relays are the switches). It all depends on how you want to set it up.
OK, now for mcdaniel1's diode/relay question. Yes, you are correct, sir! There is a forgotten, hidden, 4th relay (geez, I have too many electrical mods on this truck!). I dug out my service manual and found my notes. Right there on page 8W-50-2 showing the multi-function switch I've sketched a hidden relay.
After the multi-switch, on the hi-beam circuit I tapped the wire (red/orange) to energize the relay coil (body-ground the other side). I then tapped the wire running from the headlight switch "off" position to the multi-switch (light green) and ran this tap to one contact of the switch part of the relay. The reason to use the "off" side is so power to the low beam filament is available when you hit the momentary/flash option of the multi-switch (to flash your hi beams when your headlights are off). This headlights-off circuit (fed by the light green wire) is also linked to headlights-on wire from the headight switch inside the multi-switch. Don't worry about this too much. Suffice to say it is simply a power source to the low beam filament via the relay contacts.
The other contact of the relay (switch) is run to a tap in the low beam wire after the multi-switch (violet/white).
So, when you turn on your head lights, the stock harness lights the low beam filament. When you hit your hi beams the low beam would normally go off, but the coil of the relay is engergized via my tap off the hi beam wire and the coil closes the contacts. This routes power from the headlights-off wire out of the standard headlight switch to the low beam supply wire after the multi-switch. Voila, your low beam filament is powered.
This little relay is tuffed somewhere in the steering column. That's why I'd forgotten about it.
I know this sound far more complicated that it needs to be. But it's really pretty simple. Hope I haven't bored you with the details.
Now, wanna talk about the relay on the headlight switch so when I turn on the bed light over the rear window, the cab lights go out?!
Yeeesh,
-Jay