It was the bearings....
I am about as ticked as I have been in a LOOONGGG time. After spending God knows how much money trying everything else, with "Cape's best mechanic" troubleshooting, balancing the driveshaft, balancing and rebalancing the tires, checking everything else, it turned out to be the bearings.
And it gets better... ... .
Turns out there were metal shavings in the hub from when I had the rotors turned, which ate the bearings and races on one side. I'm not sure what happened on the other side, as it got a new rotor at the time I did brakes. Now, I know, I am ultimately responsible for making sure it is all clean inside before I packed the bearings. But, this is the first time I had had to get the rotors turned with the hub on, and I figured since Roger is a "friend," and my girlfriend works there, I'd give him my business instead of some local machine shop (who cant even bore a flywheel for a pilot bearing). As is par for the course, someone got in a hurry and failed to tell me there were shavings that needed cleaned out, or clean the hub out themselves. Turned out to cost me $100 in bearings, races, and seals. I approached him about partial reimbursement, and he says since "he lets me use his shop stuff, I am not losing anything in the long run, and in fact am costing him money. " So, if his profits are so dammed important to him, so be it. As soon as I get my drums back (which I took there 6 mo ago, good thing they are off my bad D70), I am not going by there anymore unless I have some emergency with Christina.
Thanks for all the ideas and suggestions,
Daniel