I flipped the hood on one of the firetrucks last night and went over the whole relay senerio with one of the mechanics. Today or tomorrow I will try doing that. If it doesn't work, he'll come by and give me a hand. Also a fellow member lives in the next town,
and offered his help if I need it. So I should be in good shape.
thank you for all you advice, the TDR is better than any shop manual, 24 hours a day you can get help. take care Bill