Trqmnster,
I understand your frustration. About 3 weeks ago I installed a new lp after constantly getting 7-8 psi out of the old pump at idle. The 1st day or so with the new lp my pressure was right at 15 psi, after that it dropped to about 10 psi when idling on most days. If I had been driving on a rough country road or filled up I noticed my pressure would drop to 7-8 psi at idle for a day or so. At about 2K rpm it will drop about 2-3 psi. I have a mechanical gauge so no wire connections to worry about. I figured I had sediment in my tank as I also noticed when I changed filters my pressure would be 14 psi for a few miles or so before dropping back to 10 psi and I know the filters don't get dirty that quick. I only buy fuel at truckstops that I trust and I check the nozzle for dirt in case the last guy happened to drop it etc.
My theory was anytime I opened up the fuel system it would allow a bit of a backflush to the tank... maybe this isn't true if there are check valves etc... I don't know. I dropped my tank over the weekend and I couldn't believe the sludge and sand etc in my pre-filter that's on the fuel module set-up. I also un-hooked the line at the lp and blew an air through it to blow out any sediment in the line. 17 psi with a stock pump for 2 days. I'm now about 14-15 psi after running it for 4 days. Granted that's not much to stand on but looks promising. With all of the new lp's going in and guys have poor pressures way to soon I'm wondering if they have similar amounts of sludge and sediment in their pre-filters. The pre-filter does a heck of a job as the fuel in the tank itself was clean. The downside of the deal was that I scratched the pre-filter when cleaning it and tore it. I don't know if that will create issues or not in the future with sediment. I'd almost bet my right arm that Dodge won't sell the pre-filter separate!
I've got an 02, HO with 130K on it. I don't know if your set-up would be similiar or not but figure it would be.
brad