Steve,
Wishing you the best during this difficult time, especially during the holidays. I can only imagine the pain and discomfort you are living with. To get so close to having the surgery, and then having it postponed, must have been really heartbreaking.
Although I don't have back problems, I do know what it's like to live with joint pain. I was just at the ortho surgeon today discussing options for my left foot, which has several joints that are fusing together on their own, and arthritis has set in. When I overexert using that foot, the pain is overwhelming. Although fusion surgery (complete with screws) is an option, we decided against it for now. I'm only 34, and I don't want to risk wearing out the surrounding joints any sooner than necessary. I'm going to live with the pain until I can't stand it anymore, and then have the surgery.
Hang in there, Steve. Just think of how much better you will feel once this is over. Remember, the TDR is full of super-nice people who are pulling for you all the way!!!
- Mike