Back in the '50s and '60s when old timers were pulling trailers with big old Cadillacs, Buicks, Oldsmobiles or half ton Suburbans, all with soft coil rear springs using Reese dual-cam hitches the hitch set up was far more important than with our modern Ram 2500s or 3500 duallies.
The way the old time RV dealers and techs and Airstream owners set them up was to measure distance from bottom edge of front and rear bumpers of the tow vehicle while unloaded before dropping the coupler on the ball.
With tongue weight on the ball they measured the bumper to pavement distance again and adjusted the links until the front bumper dropped maybe 1/2" to 1" and the rear bumper dropped 1" to 2". Measurements varied with tongue weight and tow vehicle suspension. The point was to place slightly more tongue weight on the rear axle but distribute the weight nearly equally to the front axle also.