The best way to make a CTD RAM NOT driveable

[EricBu12]

I have the pusher pump with the filter. I also put in a ball shut-off valve inline so If I was concerned on the truck not going anywhere, all I do is turn that and no go. It is also under the truck by the driveline so out of sight, ... . you know the rest... .



Sorry you have troubles, my brother just went through a divorce and he has 2 kids besides so that makes it hard.

 

[Smoker]

Do you have any close friends or relatives? Turn the title of the truck over to someone you know and trust. Keep it that way until things cool off. She can't get what ain't yours. Don't let her get the truck. Courts almost always rule in favor of the woman. I'd burn mine before I"d let someone like that get it.

 

[wernergerman]

Thanks ,guys!

Thank you guys for the good and supporting words and the advises. I’ll try everything out

The most sad part of this story is:I have loved her so much and have given her everything,during our marriage she had not to do anything to earn money,she’s got mad from too good life. I was stupid enough to make the title of the truck on her name,for the import tax purposes. Now I have to make it reverse,will I succeed,yes I have hard times before me,’cause I must show the foolish face,and agree to everything she says or does,even show my excitement about her new found boyfriends,when she tells me about them,and she does! It hurts,everything boils inside me,but I must remain cool . It’s hard,please pray for me,let God give me strenght to held it out.

Yes I have a son,he is nine and is oversensitive,had some epileptic attacks already love him very much and he needs me in his life. I’ll fight to keep my son. At our house she does nothing,only makes hairdress and make up,for hours,before leaving for downtown,NEVER before going in bed with me, has never done!

Guys who are not married listen and repeat after me this German prowerb:If you wanna have a bottle of beer,why should you acquire the whole brewery!

I’ll get her out of my life and hart ASAP,there are things to be done before.

Thanks for your support and care,think about me ,my son,truck,and pray for us !

Werner



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[Batman]

Werner, best of luck through your hard time.

 

[ftb87]

Hopefully you have contacted a attorney and purchased a tape recorder.



I would record everything, to help you attain cusody of you son. My prayers are with you and good luck.



I learned the hard way about ten years ago (pay a hefty child support payment) and I never get to see or talk to my daughter. The court system's are so helpful... even if your divorce decree states visitation rights .



Sorry to vent. Just be prepaired for everything and get the best attorney you can.



Frank

 

[LarryG]

A lot of good advise has been given here - especially the counseling on patience and no violence. But you don't have to go so far as to listen to the stories about the boyfriends! Like too many-been there, done that. So many Friday nights I went to the next state to pick up the 3 kids for "my" weekend, only to find the house dark and empty. But have patience - it will be over one day, and if you are sure and steady, the kids will see that in the end, which is the best feeling in the world. I know how you feel about your truck - I've had mine for 3 months and nobody should feel that way about material things! Just don't destroy it to prevent it from falling into enemy hands - I don't know what the laws are in your country, but you don't want to risk destroying it AND having to pay her for it!

 

[willyslover]

Guys..... "Location: Latvia"

some of the legal advise won't matter there

 

[fest3er]

To make it non-startable, remove the starter relay and the other three like it from the power distribution center under the hood. This should make it very difficult to start. And since it is an auto, she won't be able to push-start it very easily, either.



You could also unplug the fuel solenoid, which should prevent fuel from getting to the P7100 in the first place.



As to your other problem, I can only advocate patience. As little as jail time is valued, it's still worth far more than she is.



Good luck!



Fest3er

 

[lawdog]

I will say three things "DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT"... . I am a Police Officer, and I see the junk ALL the time. . She will try to get your evil side out of you, she will try to get you to threaten her, she will probobly even LIE, had to believe but true. Women Lie and try to twist things around to make you look bad, and them look good. She will probobly try to blame the whole thing on you somehow... DO NOT, and I mean DO NOT yell, threaten and most of all, even lay 1 finger on her, even if she wants to hit you. Domestic Violence is a 2 way street. Obviously defend yourself if your life or serious bodily injury is in jeopardy, but otherwise, let her hit you, slap you, scratch you whatever, and make a paper trail with the police. The police do not only just take men to jail for spouse abuse, WE are equal opportunity, we take women too, sometimes both. If you treat her with respect, even though it might make you puke, you will look better in the end... ...

Sorry so long, but I deal with this every day... .

 

[Chipstien]

Sorry about the news, good luck.

 

[homeka45]

Werner,



I 'll say a prayer for you and your son. I've been through this particular fire and the best advice I can give you is to get the best attorney you can find and listen to what he says.



Good Luck and remember you'll make it through.