Sooo...It turns out that not only was the mani/turbo gasket leaking but so was the slip joint on the BD manifold. Since I am out of warranty I contacted BD and they were willing to ship a new one for less cost but I needed to get it fixed. Bring in Summit Racing. Dan at BD gave me his contact info to give to Summit to see if they could offer a lower price. Summit gave a lower price without even needing to contact BD! Good deal! So, back to the shop. They removed the old manifold, cleaned everything up, checked the turbo housing for true, and installed the new BD. It all checked out...until this morning.
I just had to make sure myself and squirted some soapy water on the connections. The mani/turbo leaked way less but still leaked some. The slip joint on the brand new BD also leaks the same as the old BD. Since I'm leaving for vacation tomorrow I'm going to have to run with the leaks. I contacted the shop and he said they have installed lots of BD manifolds over the years and they've never seen one do this. Of course, they didn't see it doing it yesterday either so I don't know if others leaked and just weren't noticed.
Hopefully Dan at BD can provide some insight as to whether this is normal or if something else is going on. I did check when the engine was cold so maybe they leak and then seal as they get hot? It's hard to check at operating temps since the soapy water evaporates too fast to see any bubbles.
In the mean time, I have a BD manifold for a 5.9 if anyone in the Reno/Sparks area is interested in seeing if it works any better on their truck!