Thanks you all for all the info, I have more research to do clearly. I will def weigh it and see where things are.
I am not a tire expert but it seems to me that having capacity over the carried load is a good thing so long as one is not over inflating the tire to carry a load that's not there. As I had said, the LRF tires seem to handle better and had much less sidewall flex than the LRE that it came with but maybe those were lower quality tires as well. I run similar pressure to the originals (75psi on the OE tires, 85psi on the LRFs) and noticed much cooler running temps on the LRF tires. So just for my own curiosity, seems like LRE, LRF, LRG tires all have similar load capability at a given pressure so why not go for the higher load rating and adj pressure to match the need rather than running the lower LR tire at max capacity?
I would guess your observation differences were two fold, better tires and 10 psi more for the same load. Both will have the effects you saw.
I would look at how the LRG's are constructed. If it changes the sidewall construction to go to a LRG tire then you may not be able to reduce the pressure as much without potential issues as well. It also might not be an issue for the load you carry.
The other thing to consider is cost, you could spend 20% more money for 0% gain.
When I ran 19.5's on my 05 the sidewall construction on those tires didn't allow for pressures to be reduced below 70 psi, regardless of the load. It was more pressure than I wanted to run a lot of the time.
I don't see a down side to a heavier trailer tire or a truck tire for that mater. A Ram 2500 with four 275/70x18 LRE's is a total of 14,560 lbs for a 10k rated truck.
My 16k Lamar dump trailer is oem equipped with (4) 215/75x17.5 LRH's for a total of 19,200 lbs.
My 20k PJ dump trailer is oem equipped with (4) 235/75x17.5 LRJ's for a total of 24k capacity.
A built in safety/weight margin is a good thing.
No a little safety margin isn't a bad thing, but at some point it just becomes overkill and not needed or beneficial. It's like guys that want to make their 1/2 ton's better at towing heavy and throw LRE tires on it and then run them at 80 psi. No point or real benefit to that as they just end up overinflated and way over axle ratings. A LRC tire would do plenty on these trucks.
The 2500's you're looking at aren't as overkill as the GVWR makes them look. They are artificially limited on GVWR, but on RAWR is closer to warranting the LT275/70R18, and some of it is tire options too. I am not aware of any tires that have the appropriate LI for the RAWR on the Ram 2500. When you get larger tires, like all OEM's are these days, the LR and LI go up. I'm sure some of the tire size vs LI comes into play on the dump trailers as well.
Lastly, if you're running the higher rated tires with the proper pressure for the load then you've lost that weight safety margin... but you've gained improved traction, improved handling, reduced wear, and decreased susceptibility to road hazards. It's a trade off for sure.
So a little overkill isn't bad, but really the tire ratings themselves (more so on LT than ST) already have some decent overkill built in. I've run my LT275/70R18's at 100% of load capacity more than once and they don't handle different than when loaded at 80% of capacity. I don't feel the need to increase the LI for running at 100% of current capacity.