Blankenheim,
I don't have an in-tank pump myself, but from everything I've read here on the forum the pressures you mention don't sound abnormal for that configuration. Have you recently noticed a drop in the overall fuel pressure that has you concerned?
But as to the longevity of the in-tank pump, some have reported it lasting well over 100,000 miles. Others have not been so lucky. It's kind of a crap shoot I guess due to the varying quality of the pump itself.
Dropping the fuel tank is a piece-of-cake though. I put off dropping mine for months to replace a faulty fuel level sending unit because I dreaded it thinking it was going to be difficult. But I finally did mine all by myself in a couple of hours out in my driveway a few weekends ago. I simply ran the fuel level down to about 1/8 tank prior to starting (but you can also siphon fuel out), then I used a small floor jack and couple of inexpensive 1" ratchet straps toward each end of the tank to progressively lower one end down at a time until I had it completely on the ground (after disconnecting the fuel lines and electrical connector on the top of the tank of course). The most tedious part was figuring out how to disconnect the fuel lines and the electrical connector without being able to see them very well. Because my truck is 2WD and sits low to the ground, I then had to turn the tank on its side to drag it out from under the truck frame... no big deal though. Some folks have reported having difficulty with corroded tank strap bolts when attempting to drop their tank, but I didn't encounter any of this thank goodness. I just sprayed the tank strap bolts with penetrating oil before loosening and they came off easily.
The ring holding the fuel module in place on top of the tank can be unscrewed using a large strap wrench available at any good tool or hardware store. A new fuel tank module should come with a new rubber gasket (which is a good idea to replace to prevent leaks) but get one separately from Dodge if not. My fuel module was such a snug fit into the new gasket that I found it necessary to lubricate the gasket lightly with silicone grease in order to seat the module fully into the gasket so the plastic retaining ring would screw back on properly.
Installation of the tank back under the truck was even easier than removing it!
Good luck,
John L.