I have 102K on my truck now and have always run 265s which are D rated. First set were Goodyear GSAs which went 55K miles. Second set are BFG AT KOs and at 102k they look like there may be at least another 15k left on them. Have always run 60 lbs in front and 50 in rear. Stock HP and very little towing. As Joe D. just said above, Ds are rated for 3000 lb. a wheel.
For info you can call Goodyear and talk to an engineer. They have a hotline just like Cummins' 1-800-Diesels - don't remember the number but it shouldn't be too hard to find.
Joe D. : Obviously you like Coopers. How did you arrive at choosing them over Goodyear, Michelin, BFGs, etc? My most important tire performance need now is dry pavement interspersed with HEAVY rain (wet traction/control), never in snow anymore. Is Cooper a US company?