stalling w/aftermarket converter
I have the ATS converter and have never had the engine stall when put in gear.
Almost all the aftermarket converters improve the efficiency by making the converter "tighter", that is lower stall speed; so when you place the selector in drive the engine has more of a load on it than it would with a stock converter. With an absolutely stock engine, it is possible you could loose a little power right off the line, but you will make up for it in many other ways.
The only changes to my driving habits after the ATS converter is if I am stuck in traffic and not moving for a while (particularly in hot weather), I will pop the transmission into neutral.
Go for the transmission upgrade - you will have a 'new truck'.