Sometimes when the shoes wear into the drums, there is a ridge on the edge of the drum that won't allow the shoes to pass when you go to remove the drum... .
You need to back off the star adjuster for the shoes... remember that one turns clockwise, and the other turns counter clockwise to retract the adjuster..... If you have one off at this time see which way it turns to retract the adjuster, and put a brake spoon or screw driver into the slot for the other side and turn the star adjuster and retract it...
If the brake drum is that worn, I'm going to guess that its bad, however anyone who knows how to turn these drums can true them up, and turn the surface that the magnet runs on...
On all vehicle drums used on the road is a DOT standard that can't be exceeded... this is the minimum thickness the drum will function at safely...
Hope this helps... .
MAllen1 is right... . back up but do not apply the brakes... some trailer axles have self adjusters on them so they ratchet tighter when backing and applying the brakes... this would make your problem worse... but if they are stuck from rust in one direction then this might free them. .
BTW - the parts are side specific... that means the parts from the left side(drivers) do not work on the right side(passenger)... You can purchase complete backing plates, with all new parts attached to the them for easy assembly... I'm sure what your going to find is that the one wheel, had some of the parts come loose and damage the complete assembly...