The key word here is pressure ports. They do not flow oil, the oil dead ends at the pressure ports. It is like putting a temp sensor at the end of your hot water faucet rather than at the actual tank. You wont get a very accurate reading because the water will always read cooler at the tap rather ran if you took it right from the outline of the hot water tank.
The transmission oil pump continues to pump oil as long as your engine is running. It does not matter what gear selection the transmission is in, it still continues to pump oil. The transmission oil pump is a mechanical device, it is attached mechanically to your TC. The torque converter is bolted to your flex plate, your flex plate is bolted to your crankshaft, and as long as the engine is turning the transmission oil pump is pumping oil. Obviously people can put them wherever they want to but some of you may not be aware that the differences between measuring from the transmission cooler line and the transmission pressure ports can be as high as 150 degrees so it is an important decision .