I had the after market that did the same thing. I finally broke down and bought the pan with the built in plug.It is silly no doubt. Its been that way forever, not that it makes it any better.
I did install a drain plug in my pan. Its recently developed a very small leak. Annoying to know its there but not enough to do anything about it. I believe it is the gasket leaking at the bulk head. Probably going to have to find a better sealing washer than the crap one it came with.
Still beats draining it the "old fashioned" way.
You could go buy a large tub and collect your fluid for reuse if you are going to get back into it. Just make sure the pan is PRISTINE clean where you will be draining. Probably still be a good idea to funnel through a fine paint strainer or cheese cloth before putting the fluid back in.