Looking the other way...
Let me see... You've altered the suspension with air bags. You've raised the ride height with front lift. You've altered the engine control system with a kit,
and
It does not ride/perform/handle like a stock truck...
Looking from the DC's prespective, I might have some reluctance to fully understand the problem.
OK, it appears that SOME bone stock trucks may have the same problem. I bet they will have better luck getting DC to figure out what the problem is.
FYI, my stock 04 Dually regular cab, 2WD, 6-speed does not have the problem. Just turned 50K miles - towing all the way.
Don't get me wrong, I'd love to bomb my truck and have fun with it like you are!

Mine is just a work truck and it does it's job very well. You've put in a lot of time, effort and money into your truck and if it were mine, I'd be very proud of it.
I'd also want as much help from DC as I could get!!!