I'll sell you mine..... Yea right!!!!! Dude, you will not find anyone who will give up T-Rex after they have driven a truck with it. Good luck though, I wish you the best. As for the ride, both systems can be valved to your liking. Softens depends on how you drive off road. Most of the systems ride about the same or better than stock on the hwy and really perform in the rough. You might ask the other Greg which one he likes better, He has both systems.