Guys, at this point all I can do is give you'all a heart felt thanks for your advice. Can't get much better than the voice of all this experiance and a recruiter (thanks Ray) helping out.
I'm extremely proud of Matt. All dads say this, but he really is a great kid. He helps me bale, and haul hay (square bales, hard work), works at little brother's saw mill, splits most of the fire wood, does all these country boy things without a single complaint. After he told us what he wanted to do next week, I can't tell you how big the lump was I had to swallow while feeding last night.
You know after re-reading that last paragraph, prehaps I've been working him to hard. The Navy might be a vacation. Just kidding. I remember how strong the need was to get out of Dad's house and on my own lo those many years ago. Guess things haven't changed.
Again, thanks
Ronnie