WPeschel,
Here's what I run and have no issues at all;
98 12V Qcab 4x4 5spd long box 3. 54gears - with the following mods. ,
5" lift 35" tires, #10 fuel plt. , DDP stage 3 inj. , 3K gov. springs, timing @16*, BD exh. brake, BHAF & 4" exh. (no muffler, no drone issues), KDP dead. , and the 13" SB Con OFE clutch.
Stock cam, turbo and head.
Truck dynoed in Oct. /07 350hp & 968ft/lbs.
I tow between 9-12,000lbs quite often and have no issues with heat or maintianing speeds on highways. Even in the summer through the rockies I have no issues with EGT's as the highest I have seen is 1150* to 1175* (55-60 MPH). My rear diff. and transmission temps will reach 192* & 200* respectively under prolonged hill climbs. While towing, no surging and max boost sustained boost 27-32psi (I can max my boost to 39psi)
I am very aware that I am over-spooling the turbo and am looking at upgrading, but it has all worked well with out any issues for the
last 5 years - 100,000miles.
Best of luck with yours

,
HP