What size drop hitch do you recommend for a 2 wheel drive 3500 DRW? My 20 ft car hauler has a 19" top of ball height. It appears that to allow an inch or so of suspension travel with a load I would need a 3" drop which would give me about a 20 1/2" top of ball on the truck. Problem is, no one seems to make a 3" drop for a heavy duty ball mount. How much will the suspension compress with a load? Would a 4" drop and a ball with a 1" rise work OK?