Originally posted by LandShark
160 ft lbs on a rusty bolt with damaged threads is NOT the same as 160 ft lbs on oiled threads. We are not weighting the lugs; we are using them to clamp the wheels to the axle. What you are trying to achieve is the correct clamping force. The best way to get correct clamping force is to torque to specs with clean, dry, lugs and nuts.
You can stretch and even break lugs using oil or grease and factory torque specs. I've done it! There are seat of the pants methods for using oil, grease or anti seize, but why bother?
I think from my personal experience that there is a good chance that you have over torqued your lugs.