Gary - K7GLD, thanks for the info, you are right on track to what I'm looking for, sorry I get a little defensive when someone questions why a decision was made without all the information, and I then mentioned I would consider changing the gears as well. Also, you nailed it sort of, yes the concerns are EGT's while towing, but the second quote also nails it, I want to control them better, which means I don't expect miracles, but I don't want to have to stare at the guage all the time.
As for the boost elbow, I have been considering it but without some kind of boost fooling device, smarty or edge, I would be setting overboost codes all the time. I was hopeing that a turbo may provide more volume of air without increased pressure, does that make sense. Any way, I think I am leaning toward a Smarty and boost elbow, now knowing what the majority of the responses lean toward more boost pressure without going out of the optimum performance of the turbo.
No, the effectiveness of the turbo revolves around PRESSURE - the ability to
force added air into the combustion chamber - obviously volume is also involved, but without PSI to push it, the volume won't happen!
Central issue in your case to be aware of is that your OEM turbo is fully capable of boost up to the 35 PSI or so level with the help of a add-on power box with boost fooling and if you choose to go higher with an aftermarket turbo, be sure to factor in the added cost of eventual head/gasket work as part of the expense.
It's quite likely the mere addition of the Smarty or Comp type box, with their added power AND increased available boost with your OEM turbo will be enough - it certainly was for me, though my RV is slightly lighter than yours - my boost and EGT has NEVER been a problem for me, and I have power to spare!

As far as "side issues" are concerned, often what appears to be a simple single-point issue automatically brings with it related points that revolve around it - and to focus purely upon the seemingly SINGLE issue, while ignoring the others as some misguided attempt to maintain "thread purity" might seem proper in regards to board rules regarding "thread hijacking" as complained about earlier - the EXCLUSION of related points can easily rob the central subject of the very information most critical to a final, total solution - I'd FAR rather be supplied with too MUCH info, rather than get too LITTLE in the name of "thread purity"!
This thread is an excellent example - sure, contributors could easily restrain their responses to simply suggesting aftermarket turbos, as you had asked - but fact is, your problem, based upon inspecting your truck setup in closer detail, might easily be cured my reasonable means OTHER THAN the aftermarket turbo you thought was the answer - and without inclusion of those side issue comments you might have spent more money than necessary on hardware that would NOT be as effective as the alternate suggestions provided.
I'm not especially pointing this out for your benefit - but rather for some here who (based more upon ego and personality conflicts than where board operation is concerned!) are far too quick and eager to criticise others for posting material THEY have deemed improper and off-topic to the thread title - when in fact, it may well
not be!