I know its not what you guys desire to hear but maybe I can chime in on this for you. To dyno in most of the shops out your way one may have to inquire on how big thier wallets are before going. Most of the shops I contacted there a few years ago when I was looking for a spot to move one of my shows to(trying to cater to out of the area guys) were way too outrageous for pricing. When they were sent shots from some of my shows I had some even freaking out about the soot problems. So that led me to having a portable brought in and dropped somewhere to rip on and it was out of sight for pricing(meaning what it would have taken to have it brought in and then the $100 a truck to roll was too much).
Many problems exist when you try and set one of these up with problems ranging from dyno costs,limited parking,proper exhausting of soot,quality shops and possible permit problems. Any one of the ones I just listed can rasie your dyno fees greatly. Another problem with Jersey is their safety rules and regulations as a bigtime dyno event does not differ much from a drag race or dirt race. Competition events are kept under the state police's watchful eye and they need to be on hand for safety equipment checks(more and a BIGGER PIA). Liability insurance is needed to hold a event over there also and things get more messy as you look into it.
Talk to some of your local event co-ordinators,no matter what type of show,and see how many things have to be addressed over there to have a big public gathering for a dyno rip. What,its just a "small" show you say,posh my friend I say. When I stared doing these type events they started as a small idea and ended up with huge amounts of trucks. The smallest show I have ever done was the August show this year and it was up against Scheids so I knew it would only draw local interest(18 trucks total that day,done dynoing by lunch and enjoying adult beverages soo afterwards). My first Fall Brawl show drew better than 50 rides and we dynoed over 40 for a one day show. So when you consider the factors,you need to figure big and wait and see who shows.
I have looked around to try move one of our shows but when it comes right down too it trying to find a shop out there or even locally here to move too is impossible. The Kauffman crew have the facilities,the grounds capable of holding more equipment than we can have show and the gang to roll them in and out efficently. That is the main reason we do all our shows there,not because you guys are the "redheaded step children" of the TDR.
Hope this sheds some light onto your problems. My idea to you guys is have a local gathering like you did once before. Most any Hooters shows draw trucks or how about someone find a place simular up in the Edison area. Make sure it done on a day that doesn't conflict with a big show and one never knows how many or who will show. I am in firm belief with what I know from my research that a bigtime dyno deal there is way too costly to try and have... ... ... ... . Andy