PToombs
TDR MEMBER
I think it's mostly the parents fault. When I was young I had an allowance, but I had to do chores, do dishes, vacuum, laundry, etc. When I got older and needed more money for a car, I got a job. My parents were both workers, my mother had an accounting job. My father was foreman in the warehouse of a lumber wholesaler, and at night he unloaded lumber boxcars. I wasn't afraid to work for what I wanted, I had 2 jobs, worked days 7 days a week when I was about 24. My brother was 20 and he had 2 jobs in the same time period.
Now most kids get cars given to them at 16 or 17, an allowance for gas, or whatever, no work involved. A lot of kids have no respect, are mouthy, and don't do any thing. Why should they? Their parents give them most everything for nothing! It's no wonder they don't want to get their hands dirty and work for lower pay. What's in it for them? The satisfaction of a job well done? Yeah right! Show them the money!
Make the kids work, teach them some respect, and things will start to change.
Now most kids get cars given to them at 16 or 17, an allowance for gas, or whatever, no work involved. A lot of kids have no respect, are mouthy, and don't do any thing. Why should they? Their parents give them most everything for nothing! It's no wonder they don't want to get their hands dirty and work for lower pay. What's in it for them? The satisfaction of a job well done? Yeah right! Show them the money!
Make the kids work, teach them some respect, and things will start to change.