I agree our Rams have their problem areas. 2 WD, inherently, has much less to go wrong with the front end.
If you can live without it, I'd say bail on the 4 WD, get a 2 WD - simple is good.
Incompetent service shops (which can be dealers or some 'chain' shops, but rarely 'single owner - local' shops as they live or die on their reputation) or dishonest ones can take you for a ride.
I once worked at Mitsubishi Dealer Service dept, and they were honest, but only moderately competent. Depending on the mechanic your car was given to, you got a good, so-so or bad repair.
Gambling, anyone ?
So, by doing much of our own work, listenening to each others worthwhile advice, buying quality parts or upgraded parts, it seesm like our trucks challenges can not only be addressed, but overcome.
For example, I hope the Lukes link rebuilt track bar stays tight - it's super strong and should.
I think the Darins Steering Stabilizer bracket is extremely necessary for extra support on the steering box - perhaps my box will go many more miles. Now the front end is rock solid.
The steering fix deal we've been working on now has the 'tactile' steering wheel feel & road response just perfect. All my ball joints & tie rod ends are solid @ 155 k miles, rubber boots are shot, but all are tight.
But admittedly, if you just use stock parts, not upgrading them, get bad or dishonest advice at DC dealers or chain shops, this truck would seem like a money pit - as many sadly testify to.
I must say, if you don't like to touch your truck and have greasy hands, get a Toytota (Nissan Titans look sweet, too) - they're well designed and nearly never break !
But I don't mind as long as the repairs & upgrades are straighforward. My 4wd has all the 'normal' upgrades you all have helped me learn about, and now it's a great ride - better than ever, in fact.
Now, if I can just get the wife's Ram Van's issues licked, I can have grease free hands... ... . ha ha...
DBazley