Originally posted by mikel
What I usually do is a little different than most, but here it is since you asked.
I don't much care for switching the +12v to a relay because of issues with shorting out and the need for fuses on both leads. I'll usually take the fused +12v from the battery and run it to both the load side of the relay and one terminal on the coil. I'll run the other side of the coil through a switch to ground. Done this way you are just switching the ground, not power to the coil. This way a dead short in the activate lead will just turn on whatever the relay powers, and makes it pretty easy to figure out what's going on if you ever have to troubleshoot odd electrical issues.
Hope this helps,
Mike