Amen!
I carry more insurance than most people I know. The only two incidents that I have had (one of mine and one of my wife's) involved an uninsured motorist hitting each one of us. This should have been a no-brainer! However, on both occasions, the insurance company’s tried to give us the cheapest fix using remanufactured parts, etc. I had to fight with them for months until they finally gave in. In fact, I purchased all the parts myself from the dealer and supplied the auto body shop with them so that I was assured that they were genuine. In the end, I cancelled with each of the insurance companies (they ended up loosing a great customer which carried auto insurance [seven vehicles], home insurance and an umbrella policy). I have never tried to barter with the insurance companies when the premium arrives in the mail, but they will definitely try to barter with you when it comes to the fix. Make sure that your quote includes outside shop alignment, rust proofing, headlight alignment and anything else that you can think of. Also, I do not allow bondo to be used. The vehicle didn’t have it to begin with, so replace the entire panel! I would push for the vehicle being totaled if at all possible.