Thanks again everyone for the replies. There appears to be quite a difference of opinion on whether the 2500 can SAFELY handle a 5'ver of this size or not. Seems like some have done it without any issues and feel comfortable, while others are 180 degrees the other direction. Kind of confusing to say the least, but I do appreciate all the input. Having never towed anything of that size before I don't have any personal experience to fall back on and therefore am placing a lot on what advice I pickup from this forum. This probably isn't the place for this question, so if not please let me know. There are several newer RAM 3500 DRW currently available in the area with prices in the range of 33K to 35K for a 2007 with mileage of 7500 to 14,000. My question is how does the 3rd generation common rail stand in comparison to the 24V 2nd generation cummins as far as problems? Similar problems with the CP3 versus the VP44? Still have to upgrade the lift pump? Because there are so many difference of opinion on whether the 2500 can do the job Safely; I just need to know if trading my truck is worth the extra expense. If there is no doubt that safety is the big issue here and hauling that size of rig with a 2500 is dangerous to not only my family, but others on the road - even after the 2500 would be upgraded and outfitted properly then I guess that is what I really need to know. I hope that makes sense.
Thanks again everyone for all your helpful advice and suggestions on getting me headed on the right road
Gary
Gary - IMO , If you intend to tow predominately flat areas for awhile to get accustomed to your new 5th wheel and just feel it out... I would just stay with what you got. You will know real quick if you feel uncomfortable towing that kind of weight around. If you feel comfortable towing with your truck ,then I would spend money on transmission upgrades and certainly a good exhaust brake and good tires ... both trailer and truck. Some of the other posts stated purchasing a bigger truck or a smaller 5th wheel... The truck is one thing but I know from experience,if your better half picked out the trailer she wanted... . it is then your responsibilty to haul it. Women can't seem to change their minds as well as men!Anyway,just go slow and get used to how it handles and upgrade your vehicle accordingly.
Alan