Well, I couldn't find the pinion nut anywhere... so I got it ordered, and already got the seal.
I'm going to have a local shop (drivetrain-only shop) install it... quoted me between $100 and $150. Not worth my time sweating the details.
2003 Service Manual said:REMOVAL
(1) Remove axle shafts.
(2) Mark the propeller shaft and pinion flange for
installation reference.
(3) Remove propeller shaft.
(4) Rotate pinion gear three or four times.
(5) Measure and record the amount of torque necessary
to rotate the pinion gear with an inch pound
torque wrench (Fig. 20).
(6) Hold pinion flange with Flange Wrench 8979
(Fig. 21) and remove pinion flange nut.
(7) Remove pinion flange with Pinion Flange
Puller 8992 (Fig. 22).
(8) Remove pinion shaft seal with a pry tool or
slide hammer mounted screw.
INSTALLATION
(1) Install new pinion seal with Installer 8896
(Fig. 23).
(2) Apply a light coat of teflon sealant to the pinion
flange splines.
(3) Lightly tap the pinion flange onto the pinion
until a few threads are showing.
(4) Install flange washer and new pinion nut.
(5) Hold pinion flange with Flange Wrench 8979
(Fig. 24) and tighten pinion nut until pinion end play
is taken up.
(6) Rotate pinion several times to seat bearings.
(7) Measure pinion rotating torque with an inch
pound torque wrench and compare it to recorded
measurement. Tighten pinion nut in small incre-
ments, until pinion rotating torque is 0. 40-0. 57 N·m
(3-5 in. lbs. ) greater than recorded measurement.
(8) Rotate pinion several times then verify pinion
rotating torque again.
(9) Install axle shafts.
(10) Install propeller shaft with reference marks
aligned.
(11) Check differential fluid level.
Very few technicians have the 600 ft/lb torque wrench to properly tighten the pinion nut anyway, so thats why they use the impact.
As I said before... I would have done it myself if I could have gotten a new nut in time...
I had a 1994 1500... the pinion bearings failed from running a lockright locker in the rear. Took it to a dodge garage and they replaced all the bearings... they reused the original nut and simply locktighted it. The pinion nut backed off within 75 miles of getting it back from the dealer.
I have been gunshy of reusing ANY part such as this since... that incompetence cost me almost $1000 by the time it was all said and done.
The pinion coming loose caused the surface of the new pinion bearings to fracture... I was replacing the bearing just outside the 12k mile warranty period. From that point on, I am very leary of dealers and their shortcuts, not to mention they didn't even follow their own service manual.