That seldom happens. A million 18 wheelers disprove your theory every day. Probably just as many pickups with trailers as well.
Tractor trailers are not comparable to pickups with trailers, especially bumper pulls. Among a host of other differences, semi’s carry close to 50% of the trailer weight on the fifth wheel which greatly increases stability.
While the tow vehicle does not “cause” sway all by itself it definitely plays a roll in the stability of the system. Truck trailer modeling from Iowa State University lists 35 parameters and 7 degrees of freedom used in the calculations. More parameters apply to the tow vehicle than the trailer. This shows how important the tow vehicle’s dynamics are to the stability of the truck trailer system. To discuss sway as only a trailer issue is to misunderstand that towing is a system where the truck’s wheelbase, suspension, tires, distance from the hitch to the rear axle, and more, all have an effect on the system’s stability.
A real world example of this was a 12K tandem axle flatbed bumper pull we towed for work. Pulled by the 1 ton van with a short rear overhang it was fine. Pulled with a ½ ton suburban with a long rear overhang, soft rear suspension and squishy tires it was a different story. One trip with the suburban pulling the trailer it was loaded with three large crates (about 5K total load). When going over 65 mph the hint of sway starting could be felt. When the other guy took the wheel I warned him of it and that he should not to go over 65. He proceeded to cruise at 70 and after starting down a hill on Route 80 in PA (around where the sign says it’s the highest point east of the Mississippi) he lost it.
I've wondered if some form of sway control would have prevented the incident (or if the jackass would have been going faster just making matters worse). After looking over the right side guardrail, down the steep embankment several hundred feet high and figuring we were dead if we went over it, I can certainly understand someone’s desire to try to prevent sway by any means available. Luckily after flirting with the right side guardrail a few times during the back and forth across the highway we wound up jackknifed by the center median with only minor damage.
Russell500 I can’t help you with what sway control device to choose, if any, but stick to your guns, educate yourself on trailering stability and if you feel some kind of sway control is a wise idea then go for it. The only exception would be if someone could show that a particular sway control device actually made things worse instead of better.
After the above incident I searched for information on how to prevent sway and what to do if it happens. I was surprised on how little was out there 25 years ago. I found literature by MM Smith to be informative. His “Trailers How to Buy & Evaluate” would be a good choice for getting a detailed understanding of the dynamics of sway and how to assess your present setup. Maybe some of our forum members can suggest a more up to date book which can explain the complex subject of towing dynamics in an easy to follow manner.