Not to open a firestorm but on my 2010 I had the same problem - the solution provided to local Dodge dealer by higher was to install a small light bulb between two of the wires (which ones I don't know right off the top of my head - been 4 years now). However, it will blink ever so slightly but the hydraulic pump doesn't do anything. When I press on the brake pedal, the light gets brighter and the brakes work. If I simply remove the bulb I get a message telling me that the trailer is disconnected but I still have brakes. Now, I also got a box from Carlisle that does this electronically - it fixed the problem but died this past fall. I'm back on the light bulb at present but, before going anywhere other than from the storage to home, I'm getting another one of those boxes. BTW - when the box failed the brakes locked up -- solid.
Another BTW - when connected to a trailer with standard electric brakes we would hear a 'clicking' from the brakes, same cycle as the light bulb. This occurred in both the electric or EOH setting on the internal brake controller.
Hell of an idea. I was tempted to put a resistor between the brake line (blue) and the neutral from the truck, but I didn't have one and I would be just guessing at the value and wattage required for the resister. (We called these "pull down" resistors when an electric signal was tied low at a circuit card interface, but the same principal should work here.) A 12v light bulb would do the same thing, and I happen to have one already mounted next to the pin box on the 5th wheel that I've never turned on in the four years I've owned the trailer. Just wire it to the brake line to the actuator (from the truck) instead of the trailer's battery + and you could see the brake light it up from the cab. If it ever burned out, you would be back to dragging your trailer brakes, so you would want to check it often. If my P3 ever fails, this could be my fix.
Your box would do the same thing, but I can't figure out why your trailer brakes would lock up unless the box failure tied the brake line to battery+ as a failsafe. If it failed open, like your burned out bulb, you'd just be back to dragging your trailer brakes, but they would still work.
An earlier post also mentioned the clicking noise, as if the truck's ITBM was testing to see if the trailer was still hooked up. That's the only reason I've come up with for residual voltage on the brake line, assuming it wasn't just a mistake, was the truck was bleeding a small current through the brake line to detect the trailer, but all the time *instead of pulsing it. In my case it turned out to be a destructive test.
And lastly, because I think this thread is about done, Ram's customer assistance got back to me but was less than helpful. I replied once but won't pursue it any further. I'm hopeful this will be a head's up to others before towing for the first time, but some guys aren't having any problem or even measuring any voltage on the brake line so I'm not sure what to think.*
Just be careful. And thanks for the tip.
- John D