Port and polish of the head should help flow. Just a warning, you will drop boost, as boost is no more than resistance to flow, but your EGT should fall as well. O-ringing or fire ringing is a popular thing to do. Not sure what is involved, other than head removal and send it to a machine shop to get worked on. I'd put studs in place of the bolts when you put it back on.
A better flowing manifold is in order- ATS, HTT, BD, everyone has one nowadays. 4" exhaust is good. You may need 5" if you find the need for twin turbos. I'd only go that route if you have EGT issues with the single turbo.
A cam is another option, though labor (cost) intensive if you dont do it yourself. PDR is the only one I know of who makes them for 1st Gens. Contrary to gassers, diesel cams dont make the engine lope at idle (another sign of diesel superiority)
A wastegated turbo has a bypass in the exhaust housing that allows some of the exhaust to go around the turbo inlet after a preset boost is reached, to limit the RPM the turbo spins. This is a safety device to keep the turbo from spinning into orbit. The pressure at which the wastegate opens is determined by the maps and efficiency range of the turbo, not necessarily engine HP.
You DO have a pyromter on there, right? In te manifold? Along with a transmission temp gauge? If you dont have these, to accompany your boost gauge, they are a MUST for any future upgrades.
Daniel