Air bags should never ADD to The GVW, last time I read the disclaimer for any Air lift system they clearly state to Assist GVW.
Now consider the placement of the PIN,You need to check Your Front axle manufacture Gross steering axle (LBS) Most 3gens around 3800-4200 ET,The Gross vehicle on 3gens is I think 4700 (STR-Axle)so now You have some room to set the pin ahead of TDC R-Axle.
I would like to know why the 5th-wheel is so popular with recreational trailers, the goose-neck hook up is much safer and allows much better weight distribution when you know what you are doing. Maybe the Rec-trailer Makers what people to think that the 5er hook up on commercial vehicles are the same as the pickup bed hookups,We'll the commercial 5er is place between to drivers in the tandem's and place 8" to 10" ahead of single drives,look at the surface area of the commercial 5er VS Rec-5er,also the commercial plate is 3-4" above frame rails.
Find a company that will make you a custom hookup that knows what they are doing, Most of the most popular Rec-5ers or goose-neck B&W/Reese/,etc are way below My standards, IMO>